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Etiquette and Manners

In addition to the documents listed here, please also see the Dating and History sections.

In the Scene

Think of three Things, whence you came, where you are going, and to whom you must account.
- Benjamin Franklin    

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At Parties

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Mainstream Etiquette

The BDSM world is an extention of the larger world and the etiquette and protocols of the larger world still apply -- sometimes to a greater extent. A good dom still says "please" and "thank you" and apologizes when appropriate. A good sub will not push others out of their way when fetching a drink for their dom.

The exterior of a leather bar named the "American Eagle"

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The use of the Internet is in its relative infancy. In the words of counsel, it is 'an unruly beast.' Or so it will certainly become without a foundation of good-neighbor commercial principles.
  -- Justice Janet M. Wilson of the Ontario Superior Court of Justice in Toronto

On top of a bridge in cyberspace, warlocks conduct a flame war while under the bridge hateful trolls post insults to discussion boards.

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Affiliated, Related, and Similar Communities


Religion, Spirituality, and BDSM

D/s in the Bible

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.
Genesis 2:18

For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the savior of the body.
Ephesians 5:23

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Ephesians 6:25

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord; whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement
1 Peter 3:1 and 6

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power (control) of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power (control) of his own body, but the wife.
1 Corinthians 7:3 - 4


If you fear lest you may not be perfectly equitable in treating more than one wife, then you shall be content with one.
The Koran - 4:3


A gorean, a psychic vampire, and a Christian nun in a Gothic dungeon.